He's just not that into me....

I’ve seen the movie, “He’s just not that into you”. Yesterday I bought the book on a friend’s recommendation and read it all. It should be every woman’s bible. I know I have high standards and that I deserved to be loved and treated right and this book just confirmed it for me. I learned that lesson after I devoted 5 years of my time, my love and devotion to a guy who at the end of the day cared more about himself and his needs then he would ever about mine. It also, confirmed that we woman are crazy and will think of any excuse or reason as to why a guy is not giving us the attention we need and that he WILL eventually come around. I don’t know why we torture ourselves. Well I do because I’ve been there, but not wanting to be lonely and feeling we will never find the man of our dreams really is no reason to not be happy with a guy. This book although a little frightening is very liberating. No longer will I try and convince myself that the guy I like will come around or listen to my girlfriends tell me to just give him more time, because you’re great and he will come around eventually. I’m surrounded by great relationships. I know what they look like and I know that it is what I want too. I just need to give it time and enjoy my life; hopefully one day there will be a guy out there that loves me the way I deserve to be loved, who returns my phone calls and makes me feel special. Until that time, I will date, but I will not let a guy lead me on or believe that he is the one if he really is just not that into me.